Tuesday, November 4, 2014

How To Deal With Damaged Curls



One of the most frequently asked questions I get is: "what can I do to repair heat (or color) damage?"

I am no stranger to damaged curls, it is something that I have dealt with in the past and I know how incredibly frustrating and even devastating it can be when you feel like maybe you have killed your curls. But it is not a hopeless situation. There are measures that can be taken to repair your damaged hair. Doing the "big chop" is not always your only option.

My latest video deals with this issue. I relate to you all some things that helped me to repair my curls and get them to get their life back! These are really and truly the things that I did to help my hair and they really worked for me. Hopefully you will enjoy the video and hopefully these tips will help to improve the health of your hair as well!

Thanks for reading and thanks for watching in advance!


xoxo,
Courtany


Thursday, June 5, 2014

How I Deal With The Struggle...I Mean, Stress

Hey Dolls,

Today I wanted to talk to you all about a little something I've been dealing with lately and perhaps you have been too. This little issue seems to be  my constant companion no matter how fast I try to run away from it and no matter how deep into the far recesses of my mind I retreat in order to hide from it. It's always there regardless as to how fervently I try to avoid it. To what do I refer? A little thing called: "Stress."

We may all experience it's effects in different ways. And we all may be experiencing it for different reasons, but the fact remains that we all deal with stress. It seems in life we never have enough time, money, or resources and often times one or more of these things is the catalyst for us feeling stressed out. But whatever the cause may be we all have to find some way of dealing with the stress in our lives. I thought I would list for you all some of the ways that I deal with my stress.

1. Talk About it.

I don't know about you, but my natural inclination when faced with a problem or conflict is to avoid it at ALL COST. But i've grown to learn that avoiding or ignoring problems does not make rid them from your life nor does it rid them from your mind. You are not eliminating the issue you are simply procrastinating on it. I find it helpful to acknowledge the issues that are causing me stress by talking to a trusted confidant about them. I make sure to choose someone I know will not have preconceived notions about the situations and someone who knows me well enough that they will understand and be sympathetic to my feelings. (Yes, I usually talk to my Mom)

2. Step Back From The Situation.

Sometimes I get so caught up in whatever issue is stressing me out that I feel as though I am drowning emotionally beneath my problems. I find it good to take a step back from the issue, be it literally or figuratively, and try to get some perspective. I try to think about the situation as if I was not me but a neutral third-party and judge the situation accordingly. Now, i'm not going to pretend that this is an easy task to accomplish, because let me tell you it definitely, 100%, is not. However, once I get that perspective, I usually come to find that my situation isn't quite as dire and severe as I was making it out to be, and even if it is a dire situation that I'm in I remember that I've been in pickles (yes, I just used that word) in my life before and I've never once not come out of it on the other side successfully.

3. Do Something Relaxing.

Not once in my life have I ever solved a problem or situation by anxiously worrying and thinking about it. Yet, without fail, every single time that is exactly my first reaction. So, in an effort to calm the beast that is my anxiety ridden mind I try to do something to forget about the problem. Now, this may sound contradictory to what I said in solution number one about how ignoring a problem does
not make it go away, while this is true, on the flip side, obsessively worrying and searching for a way to solve the problem right now, and by right now I mean YESTERDAY (if only I had that time machine always asked my parents to buy me as a kid) also does not make the problem go away. Maintaining my mental sanity (or some semblance thereof) takes high priority in my life. And sometimes the only way to do that is to take some time doing something that takes my mind off of current preoccupations and allows me to get a little R&R even if just for a few moments.

Small things I like to do to relax are: Reading, Watching Netflix, or Journaling (wow, I'm the most boring person in the world aren't I?). Other things that might take a little more time, energy, and/or resources that I love doing to relax include: Bike riding, Walking (or standing, or sitting, or running, or crouching, or jogging, or power walking, or skipping, or...) on the Beach, and Sun-Bathing (although skin cancer is a real thing folks so wear that sunscreen).



So I've only acquired three solutions, but that's because the struggle is real and I'm still trying to find solutions to this myself. If you have any other solutions to stress that you find to be helpful, comment below! If you would like me to write more articles on random life-related things comment below for that too!

Xoxo,
Courtany

As always you can find me gabbing away about hair and beauty things in my nerdy (some have called it "quirky") fashion on My Youtube Channel.
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Monday, June 2, 2014

MAY Beauty Favorites Video!

Hey Dolls,

My latest video is up on the channel. I talk about my favorite Beauty products during the month of May. Hope you guys enjoy!



Talk to you guys soon!

Xoxo,
Courtany

Friday, May 9, 2014

My Favorite Conditioners

Hey guys,

I recently made a new video on my Youtube Channel, in which I talk about all of my favorite hair conditioners. I got some requests to make a video about this. As we all know curly hair seems to perpetually be in dire need of moisture so a good conditioner should be the main ingredient in any curly girls routine. I hope that that video may be of some use to some of you!


Don't forget to LIKE and SUBSCRIBE when you are over on my channel! Talk to you guys soon!

Xoxo Courtany

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Spring Complete Look Video

Hey guys,

My new video is now up on my channel: Spring Complete Look. It's the first video i've ever done that  has incorporated fashion! Please go check it out!

And don't forget to "Like" and "Subscribe."

Xoxo Courtany

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Messy Side-Braid Hair Tutorial

Hey Dolls,

I recently posted a video to my YouTube Channel showing a tutorial of how to achieve a messy side-braid on naturally curly hair. As a curly girl I am always on the lookout for new and interesting styles to do with my hair, because I tend to get bored of it very easily. I find that trying out different styles helps me to resist the temptation to fry my curls straight. 

This is a very trendy style that I see a lot of straight or wavy haired girls do, but not so much for us curlies. I used to do this style a lot way back when in my flat ironing days, but didn't think it would really work for me anymore. I'm so glad to finally figure out a good way to accomplish it on my natural hair! 


Please feel free to check out the other videos over on my channel! Also feel free to "Like" and "Subscribe" while you are over there!

Thanks guys!

xoxo Courtany

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Winter Curly Hair Routine Video

Hey guys,

My new video is now up on my channel! I break down my current hair routine for my curly hair during this winter. Check it out! And don't forget to like and subscribe and comment while you're there!


xoxo Courtany

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Tips That Help Me In The Fight Against Insomnia

Hey,

Recently I have been having the hardest time falling asleep at night. I will think that I am tired but the minute the light turns off my brain turns on and I find myself tossing and turning for hours unintentionally trying to solve all of the mysteries and problems in my life. It is no fun at all and it makes it nearly impossible to awaken the next morning at an hour that doesn't make me feel like a teenager again!

Here are some things that I have started trying in an attempt to curb this thorn in my flesh of insomnia. Hopefully, they will help me to solve this problem once and for all and if you are struggling with this as well hopefully that will help you!

1. Camomile Tea:
This is quite a common solution to the insomnia issue. Camomile is said to naturally relieve anxiety and make you sleepy. Some new studies have shown that to receive the full effects it needs to build up in your system over time, meaning that in order to have it really help you fall asleep you need to drink at least one cup every single day and then in the long run it will cure your sleeping problem (or lack of sleeping problem should I say).

2. Exercise:
Exercise makes you tired. Simple as that. Exercise also helps with anxiety, which is commonly the main cause of insomnia. Exercising an hour or two before bedtime will help to relax both your body and your mind. win win.

3. No Late-Night Snacking:
How can our bodies relax enough to fall asleep while they are working so hard to digest those hostess donuts we were just snacking on five minutes before we turned the lights out? I am big on late-night snacks it's totally my vice. Before 8:00 PM I have no interest in snacking on things with no nutritional value, but after 8:00 PM that's a different story. However, sleep is much more important than dessert, not to mention infinitely more healthy!

4. Stay Away From Electronic Devices:
How many of us have said: "I'm going to bed now." And then we immediately pick up our phones and check Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook, KIK, try to beat the next level of that game we our playing, check our junk mail, etc for the next hour. Sometimes our problem isn't that we can't fall asleep, it's that we can't let go of our electronic BFF.

5. Read:
"But I need to look at something before bed to relax me!" you may say. Read! Looking at what so-and-so had for dessert won't make you want to fall asleep, but it will make you hungry! (see number 3 for more on that) Instead of getting yourself all riled up over your friend-of-a-friends exotic vacation that you just can't figure out how they can afford, read something relaxing and encouraging. Something that gets your mind off of life (yours or otherwise) and takes you somewhere else, closer to dreamland ideally.

6. White Noise:
If you want to see me literally not fall asleep, like, ever, force me to sleep somewhere in complete silence. I cannot do it. My whole life I have slept with the white noise of a fan off in the background lulling me to sleep and I cannot sleep without it. If you've never tried it, give it a shot, it's a game changer, trust me. Now, if you don't want to dry out your sinuses or freeze to death in the winter by having a fan blowing all night long, fear not, there's an app for that! When I'm on vacation I use the app called, you guessed it: "White Noise." You can get it on your smartphone, or your tablet, or your computer. There's even a "Lite" version that is absolutely free and still has so many options. You can listen to the sound of waves crashing on the shore, raindrops falling, a shower, an air conditioner, an oscillating fan, an airplane engine, the list goes on. You can also listen to regular white noise, brown noise, and some other color noises I can't remember at the moment. The options are endless! "Hide yo kids, hide yo wife, cuz errybody listening to White Noise out here."

These are just a few tips that I have been trying out. I hope that maybe they will help you out as they have been starting to help me. Feel free to let me know in the comments below anything that has worked for you in your struggle to get some shut-eye, I am definitely open to suggestions!

Until Next Time My Darlings!

xoxo Courtany


Monday, February 3, 2014

January 2014 Beauty Favorites

Hey Guys,

Go check out my latest video on the Youtube! I show you guys all the beauty things i've been obsessed with during the month of January! Mostly MAC, but other stuff too! Don't forget to "Like" and "Subscribe" on Youtube as well! Thanks guys!

xoxo Courtany

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Tuesday, January 28, 2014

New Blog!

Hey guys,

In case you haven't figured it out yet, my blog has moved! This location will be better overall and easier for me to use and update. It will also be simpler being under the "honeyscurls" name. Now, no matter where you want to find me on the internet, I am under that pseudonym!

With this change the idea is that I will be able to keep you up to date with more content more often. I am planning on doing reviews on here as well as simply just keeping you up to date with my goings on.

Thanks so much for being so cool about the change, I have high hopes for this being better in the long run!

xoxo Courtany

P.S. As always you can also find me on the internets via these locations:

youtube.com/honeyscurls
twitter.com/honeyscurls
honeyscurls.tumblr.com
facebook.com/honeyscurls
instagram.com/honeyscurls